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Older dog experiencing new separation anxiety

Updated Dec 8, 2024

Dear Cathy, 

We have a 16-1/2-year-old rescue Jack Russell. He is the love of our lives. He recently went deaf and now is almost blind as well. He recently underwent surgery to have 13 teeth pulled. He’s a real trooper. Even though he has all these old age issues, he remains spry when he’s up.

He has, however, begun to howl and bark when we’re not home. Unfortunately, I have an 85-year-old mother who lives downstairs and is having a real hard time with this. She’s never been a pet person. We don’t go out often and try to get our kid to watch him, but if I am not in the house, he whines horribly and cries for hours. It’s so painful to watch, but I can’t be here 24 hours a day every day. Is there anything we can do? He’s been to the vet and they say his blood work is better than a human’s!

– Lauren, Wantagh, New York

Dear Lauren,

Any change in behavior can often be tracked back to health issues, so I am glad you ruled that out first.

Sometimes, as dogs and cats age, they get a little clingier. If your dog is only howling when you are gone, this can be a form of separation anxiety. Instead of destroying your house though, he is destroying your mom’s peace of mind.

Treat this like anxiety. Get him an Anxiety Wrap or ThunderShirt to wear when you are not home. Give him some over the counter calming chews, put a few drops of Rescue Remedy in his water, or give him melatonin (1 mg two to three times a day).

If these natural methods of reducing anxiety don’t calm your dog, talk to your vet about a mild anti-anxiety medication. I think if you treat him for anxiety, you will get results.

Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, children’s author, syndicated pet columnist, and pet expert with more than 30 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to moc.tidnuptepobfsctd-5ff173@yhtac. Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal

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Cathy M. Rosenthal is an award-winning humane educator and author, animal welfare strategist, pet columnist, and speaker who has spent more than 38 years working in animal welfare with local and national humane organizations. She helps people better understand and care for animals through her nationally syndicated My Pet World column and has been the longtime pet columnist for the San Antonio Express-News since 2003.

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Cathy is the editor and curator of Humane Perspectives: Leadership in Animal Welfare and is the author of several books, including Grant Writing Boot Camp for Animal AdvocatesThe Lucky Tale of Two Dogs, and The Happy Tale of Two Cats, which was the 2026 winner of the Association of Professional Humane Educators’ (APHE) "Educator’s Choice Award" for Best Humane Education Book for Young Children. She also received the 2026 APHE Nathania Gartman Heroes Award for Impact in Humane Education. Her humane education programs in Texas have reached more than 45,000 elementary school children since 2019.

She resides in Texas with her husband, their cat Sterling, and a former community cat, Maddie, who successfully negotiated an indoor living arrangement but still considers human affection highly negotiable.

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