Reader takes right steps towards dog/cat introductions

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Reader takes right steps towards dog/cat introductions

Updated Dec 21, 2021

Dear Cathy,

We just took in a five-year-old dog from a family friend who could not keep him anymore.  All is going somewhat well, but he does not get along with my three-year-old cat at all. We have tried to introduce them with him being held back on a leash, but he constantly keeps going after the cat.  The cat pays the dog no mind.  But the dog doesn’t seem to be improving at all.  It has only been about three weeks, but some of my research suggests this may never change. Are there any tips or suggestions you may have on how to get the dog to just be able to live in the same house with my cat?

– Graig, West Babylon, New York

Dear Graig,

I applaud you for keeping the new dog on the leash these last few weeks. I know it’s inconvenient to “walk” the dog around the house, but it gives the dog and cat time to get to know each other without the dog chasing and scaring the cat.

In addition, use a baby gate around the house to keep the dog from chasing the cat. The baby gate provides the dog and cat some much-needed nose-to-nose time, which can help further cement their friendship. Animals learn a lot through scent.

At the same time, reinforce “sit” and “stay” commands with your new dog all throughout the day, so he learns to listen to you. He doesn’t have to love the cat (and vice versa), they just need to respect each other.

Once they are comfortable together, keep the leash on the collar for a few more days, so you can grab it if needed. If after all this, the dog is still acting like he wants to hurt the cat, then you may have to re-home the dog. But generally, if the dog is just anxious and highly-interested in the cat, and not growling and showing signs of aggression, they should eventually learn to get along.

Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, author, columnist and pet expert who has more than 25 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal


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Cathy Rosenthal, CHES, CFE
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Cathy brings more than 25 years' experience in the animal welfare field. She is a sought-after speaker, Certified Humane Education Specialist, a syndicated pet advice columnist, an author, a publisher, and of course - a loving pet parent.

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