Helping a small overprotective dog feel at ease

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Helping a small overprotective dog feel at ease

Dear Cathy,

My Chihuahua is extremely protective of me. No one can touch me or come near me. I want to learn how to teach my dog not to be defensive on my command. 

– Rafael, New Castle, Delaware

Dear Rafael,

With a small dog, overprotectiveness is mostly related to fear. Growling and baring their teeth is an attempt to control everything around them – and it often works.

But sometimes, with small dogs, we accidentally reinforce this behavior.  If a large dog growls, “people change their behavior and back up,” says dog training expert Megan Stanley in Calgary, Canada. “With a small dog, people are more likely to giggle and continue approaching the dog, which only increases the dog’s fear.”

So, the trick is not to command your dog to stop growling, but to change what’s happening in his surroundings that triggers the behavior.

First, get your dog comfortable around people. Ask visitors not to approach your dog and to wait until your dog comes to them. Ask visitors to sit down to reduce the chance any sudden movements will trigger the behavior. And, give visitors dog treats to toss to your dog, so he learns visitors means treats.

The second step is avoiding the situations that trigger the behavior. Stanley says an example of this is when a dog is sitting on your lap and begins to growl as someone approaches. Don’t try to change the dog’s behavior at that point with a correction. Instead, “get up and move, so the dog is not left in a position to protect you,” she says.

So, don’t hold your dog when company comes over and don’t let your dog get in between you and a visitor. Whenever your dog is in between you and a visitor, he is going to feel the need to protect you. Ask your dog to sit instead, and then stand between the dog and the visitor, so he learns you don’t need his help.

If this feels like more than you can handle, or you aren’t making progress, visit the Association of Professional Dog Trainers at www.apdt.com to find a local trainer.

Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, children’s author, syndicated pet columnist, and pet expert with more than 30 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to moc.tidnuptepobfsctd-32437b@yhtac. Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal

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Cathy Rosenthal (aka The Pet Pundit), CHES, CFE

Animal Welfare Communications Strategist, Writer & Educator

Cathy M. Rosenthal is an award-winning humane educator and author, animal welfare strategist, pet columnist, and speaker who has spent more than 38 years working in animal welfare with local and national humane organizations. She helps people better understand and care for animals through her nationally syndicated My Pet World column and has been the longtime pet columnist for the San Antonio Express-News since 2003.

In addition to her writing, Cathy develops humane education, leadership, customer service, and compassion fatigue training programs for animal welfare organizations nationwide, and has helped raise millions of dollars through grant writing, strategic communications, and program development.

Cathy is the editor and curator of Humane Perspectives: Leadership in Animal Welfare and is the author of several books, including Grant Writing Boot Camp for Animal Advocates, The Lucky Tale of Two Dogs, and The Happy Tale of Two Cats, which was the 2026 winner of the Association of Professional Humane Educators’ (APHE) "Educator’s Choice Award" for Best Humane Education Book for Young Children. She also received the 2026 APHE Nathania Gartman Heroes Award for Impact in Humane Education. Her humane education programs in Texas have reached more than 45,000 elementary school children since 2019.

She resides in Texas with her husband, their cat Sterling, and a former community cat, Maddie, who successfully negotiated an indoor living arrangement but still considers human affection highly negotiable.

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